SIMBANG GABI (3rd Day)

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Simbang Gabi (3rd Day)

(Matthew 1:12-25)

Joseph was shocked when he learned that Mary was expecting a baby. Here was a woman, Mary, whom Joseph always knew to be beyond fault. Legally he could have denounced her publicly. Yet he didn’t. He was ready to let the whole matter drop quietly, as if to give Mary the benefit of the doubt.

What a great virtue this is: to think the best of others! It reflects a heart of a true Christian—peaceful and calm. How many friendships have ended ― and relationships were damaged indeed, how many wars have started ― because people assumed the worst of someone else. Many times we have judged the motives of someone else, only to learn later that things were not as they first appeared? Can we not just “be more eager to put a good interpretation on a neighbor’s statement than to condemn it” (St. Ignatius)?

                This is the key to healthy relationships within the family, in the workplace, in religious communities and among friends. But the sad thing is that we expect others to judge us according to our intentions, but we judge others according to their actions. In other words, we say to ourselves, “my intentions are good, why don’t they see this?”

               But when it comes to other people, we often fail to give them the benefit of the doubt. BE KIND TO EVERYONE, BECAUSE YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT PROBLEMS THEY HAVE… maybe deep inside they are struggling with an old and festering emotional wound.

St. Ignatius, the founder of the Society of Jesus (Jesuits), has a very nice reflection on this: BEWARE OF CONDENMING ANY MAN’S ACTION. COSIDER YOUR NEIGHBOR’S INTENTION, WHICH OFTEN IS HONEST AND INNOCENT, EVEN THOUGH HIS ACTIONS SEEM BAD IN OUTWARD APPEARANCE. In dealing with others, is charity always my first response?

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    LAUNCHING OF ROSARY MONTH

    Note to all Local Priors [for the Book of Masses]: After the feast of the Archangels (Sept. 29), “a Mass is to be offered for the living relatives, friends, and benefactors of the Order” (cf. Add. Code 70d)

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    October 2, 2020

    BIRTHDAY
    Fray Leonardo Pauligue
    Sr. Leah Lachica, AR

    ANNIVERSARY OF SIMPLE PROFESSION
    (2004-2020)
    Fray Leo Alaras

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    START OF THE NOVENA TO OUR LADY OF THE ABANDONED (Valencia) / OUR LADY OF THE PILLAR (Baguio)

    POPE FRANCIS’ PASTORAL VISIT TO ASSISI

    BIRTHDAY
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    Sr. Elyn Joy Olmedo, AR

    ANNIVERSARY OF PRESBYTERAL ORDINATION
    (1987-2020)
    Fray Bernard Amparado
    Fray Cristituto Palomar
    Fray Joseph Granada
    Fray Jorge Peligro

    DEATH ANNIVERSARY
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    PRAYER INTENTION: FOR OAR VOCATION (cf. LAMP I,5c)

    BIRTHDAY
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    Fray Joffrey Casusa (novice)
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    DEATH ANNIVERSARY
    (2003-2020)
    Fray Celestino Cachapero, OAR

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    WORLD TEACHER’S DAY

    BIRTHDAY
    Sr. Miguela Obera, AR

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    BIRTHDAY
    Sr. Primitiva Berdejo, AR
    Sr. Noemi Mapa, AR
    Sr. Rona Alaza, AR

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    BIRTHDAY
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    Sr. Juliet Natinga, AR

    ANNIVERSARY OF PRESBYTERAL ORDINATION
    (2006-2020)
    Fray Henry Santiago
    Fray Anthony Irineo
    Fray Russell Lapidez
    Fray Virgilio Paredes, Jr.

    DEATH ANNIVERSARY
    Sr. Margarita Miranda de Santa Monica, AR

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    BIRTHDAY
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    3rd FOUNDING ANNIVERSARY OF THE COMMUNITY OF RECOLETOS DE URBIZTONDO (Pangasinan)

    BIRTHDAY
    Fray Mark Angelo Diaz (novice)
    John Leonard Cabling (RAY-Canlubang)
    Glorie Lynn Sorgon (RAY-Bacolod)

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    October 10, 2020

    ST. THOMAS OF VILLANOVA,
    Bishop and Patron of Studies

    PRIOR GENERAL LAUNCHES THE BOOK:
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    (Note: Title and cover are not yet finalized)

    BIRTHDAY
    Most Rev. Raul Dael, DD [Bishop of Tandag]
    Sr. Ofelia Laspobres, AR

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    October 11, 2020

    ST. POPE JOHN XIII

    PARISH FIESTA OF NSTRA. SNRA. BIRHEN DE LOS REMEDIOS PARISH (Tanapag Village, Saipan)
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    Presider: Most Rev. Ryan Jimenez, D.D. (Bishop of Chalan Kanoa)

    BIRTHDAY
    Fray Samuel Eyas

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    BLD. MARIA THERESA FASCE, Virgin

    SOLEMNITY OF OUR LADY OF THE PILLAR
    TOMA DE HÁBITO
    Time: 9:00 A.M. / CARES, Baguio City
    Presider & Homilist: Fray Edgar Tubio, OAR (Provincial Councilor)

    PATRONAL FIESTA: PARISH OF OUR LADY OF THE ABANDONED
    Valencia, Negros Oriental
    Time: 10:00 A.M. (cf. FB Live Streaming)
    Fiesta Mass Presider: Most Rev. Julito Cortes, D.D. (Bishop of Dumaguete)

    BIRTHDAY
    Fray Seiji Ishii (novice)
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    Sr. Marilyn Gustilo, AR
    Sr. Bernarditha Barnido, AR

    DEATH ANNIVERSARY
    Mo. Dionisia Mitas de Santa Maria Talangpaz

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    October 13, 2020

    COMMEMORATION OF THE DECEASED BENEFACTORS OF OAR

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    BIRTHDAY
    Sr. Laura Cabanacan, AR
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    BIRTHDAY
    Fray Renz Calex Soriano (simply prof.)

    ANNIVERSARY OF PRESBYTERAL ORDINATION
    (2005-2020)
    Fray Vincent Cadeliña

    DEATH ANNIVERSARY
    Sr. Monica de Espiritu Santo, AR

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    WORLD FOOD DAY 2020

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    ANNIVERSARY OF PRESBYTERAL ORDINATION
    (1988-2020)
    Fray Manuel Lipardo
    Fray Domingo Saladaga, Jr.
    Fray William Emilito Villaflor

    DEATH ANNIVERSARY
    Sr. Margarita de Sgdo. Corazon de Jesus, AR

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    BIRTHDAY
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    Sr. Ma. Cirila Uy, AR
    Shiela Mae Labadia (RAY-Caidiocan)

    DEATH ANNIVERSARY
    Sr. Visitacion de San Miguel, AR
    Sr. Gabriela Garcines, AR
    Sr. Jacinta Mandia Robin, AR

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    WORLD MISSION SUNDAY
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    25th FOUNDING ANNIVERSARY (1995-2020) SARF- VALENCIA CHAPTER

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    Jonel Mendoza (RAY-Miranila)

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    PRAYER INTENTION: FOR THE SICK (cf. LAMP I,5c)

    BIRTHDAY
    Sr. Arlyn Sarmiento, AR

    DEATH ANNIVERSARY
    Sr. Ma. Virginia Acha, AR

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    October 20, 2020

    ST. MAGDALENE OF NAGASAKI,
    Patroness of the Secular Augustinian Recollects

    BIRTHDAY
    Fray Ken Oliver Lao

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    October 21, 2020

    BIRTHDAY
    Sr. Ursulina Balading, AR
    Sr. Ma. Lutgarda Cañete, AR

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    ST. POPE JOHN PAUL II

    BIRTHDAY
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    Fray Edgar Tubio
    Sr. Teresita Diana, AR

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    ST. WILLIAM THE HERMIT & BLD. JOHN THE GOOD, Religious

    BIRTHDAY
    Fray Hernando Coja
    Sr. Herminia Catindig, AR

    ANNIVERSARY OF PRESBYTERAL ORDINATION
    (1967-2020)
    Fray Dunstan Huberto Decena

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    BIRTHDAY
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    ANNIVERSARY OF SIMPLE PROFESSION
    (1996-2020)
    Fray Glynn Ortega

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    ST. JOHN STONE, Priest & Martyr

    BIRTHDAY
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    Simon Kurt Casupanan (RAY-Cavite)
    Nestor Tala (RAY-Miranila)

    25th ANNIVERSARY OF SIMPLE PROFESSION
    (1995-2020)
    Fray Joel Dequilla

    PRESBYTERAL ANNIVERSARY
    (1983-2020)
    Most Rev. Buenaventura Famadico, DD (Diocese of San Pablo)

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    BIRTHDAY
    Fray Dionisio Selma
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    Sr. Rosalie Ubo, AR

    DEATH ANNIVERSARY
    Sr. Leonora Mercado, AR

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    BIRTHDAY
    Fray Antonio Limchaypo

    DEATH ANNIVERSARY
    Mo. Presentacion de San Jose, AR
    Sr. Martina Labao, AR

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    PRAYER INTENTION: FOR OAR MISSION (cf. LAMP I,5c)

    BIRTHDAY
    Sr. Jeana Abejuela, AR

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    BIRTHDAY
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    Kristine Ruelo (RAY-Provincialate)

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    October 30, 2020

    ANNIVERSARY
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    BIRTHDAY
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    ANNIVERSARY OF PRESBYTERAL ORDINATION
    (1999-2020)
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    BIRTHDAY
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    DEATH ANNIVERSARY
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