Sunday within the Octave of Christmas: Feast of the Holy Family

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When God created human kind, He made them in His image and likeness, male and female He created them. Then God commanded that a man shall leave father and mother and cling to his wife and the two shall become one. Since God is love, the love of husband and wife on this earth becomes the living image of God who is love, and marriage becomes the natural school of Love. Husband and wife beget children and form a family, a community of love. At the baptism of Jesus in the Jordan, God manifested himself as three divine persons: Father, Son and Holy Spirit; and in the Gospel of John 14:15 we hear Jesus say, “If you love me and keep my commandments, I will ask the Father and He will give you another Advocate who will always be with you, the Spirit of Truth…” The Three Persons in One God make up a Divine Community of Love. The human family on earth becomes the living image of the Triune God, a community of love. This is our faith in the Catholic Christian Church.

It is, therefore, important that we reconsider our concept of Christian marriage and family. Even Catholic Christians often enter into marriage with pagan ideas of simply satisfying human instincts and with other purposes in mind. They make marriage only as a status symbol, or as means to enrich oneself, or to enter a higher rank in society. The divine purpose of marriage and family is distorted and forgotten.      

Many consequences follow this distorted concept of marriage and family. The first, of course, is to find easy way out by divorce. Then, a child is no longer a gift from God but a burden to parents, another mouth to feed, not a citizen for heaven. The birth control and RH Law are promoted; and worst, the union of the same sex is called marriage. (cf. Lev 18:22/ 20:13; Rom 1:24-32; Mal 2:13-16). Recently, President Duterte announced that he will allow same sex marriage. In many occasions Pres. Duterte declared that he is fighting drug addiction to preserve and protect the future generation of Filipinos. But what future generation is there in same sex marriage? Does he think before he speaks?

In the early years of the Church, Satan tried to destroy her by killing the believers in Christ. Many martyrs shed their blood for Christ, starting with the stoning of St. Stephen. Then the Romans beheaded and crucified many Christians. Islam slaughtered many more Christians as the ISIS still do today in Syria and Iraq. Catholic Christians shed their blood for Christ. In our days, Satan uses another strategy to destroy the Church, i.e., hedonism. Husband and wife seek each one’s pleasure and convenience; though already married, each pursues his or her own desires and ambitions. The husband has his own group of friends with whom he spends more time than with his family; and the wife in turn seeks her own fulfillment as a career woman sacrificing quality time with the children. The serious consequence is the frequency of quarrels that cause trauma for the children. The victims of this situation are the children who do not receive the care nor the love of the parents. Then the easy solution of separation or divorce is sought.

Where now is God’s plan that THE TWO SHALL BECOME ONE? And that THE FAMILY IS TO BECOME A COMMUNITY OF LOVE?

When we pursue this mentality, Satan dances for joy: “I won, I won!” he exclaims. Why? Because God’s plan has been destroyed and because, just as the family is the basic unit of society, so too the family is the basic unit of the Church. If the family dies, the Church dies as well.

Therefore, brothers and sisters, let us look at the stable in Bethlehem. Let us look at the Holy Family and ask Jesus to make our families like his family, to make it a community of love as the Father has planned it. Let us recover the true notion of love: namely, the giving of self for the good of the other as Jesus gave himself up for me, not my self-satisfaction but the satisfaction of my beloved, my self-control for the good of my beloved, my self-discipline for the growth of my loved ones.Jesus gave up his divinity and became one of us so that we can become like him. God became man so that we humans can become sons and daughters of God. The Master of the universe came to us becoming a slave, so that we who are slaves can be lifted up to become sharers of his dignity and divinity. And his road to that end is LOVE ONE ANOTHER AS I HAVE LOVED YOU! Let the love of Christ reign in our families.

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Fray Hubert Dunstan Decena, OAR

Priest/Religious/Bible Professor of the Order of Augustinian Recollects in the Province of St. Ezekiel Moreno.

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    SOLEMNITY OF MARY, MOTHER OF GOD

    54th WORLD DAY OF PEACE

    BIRTHDAY
    Sr. Cristita Cha, AR

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    January 2, 2021

    ATTENTION: Provincial-Level Christmas Party is CANCELLED.

    SIMPLE PROFESSION OF VOWS OF FRAY CHRISLEAN REY PAMILAGA
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    BIRTHDAY
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    Sis. Emma Toro, SAR (Valencia Chapter)
    Sis. Marcelina Nicolas, SAR (Tondo Chapter)

    DEATH ANNIVERSARY
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    SOLEMNITY OF THE EPIPHANY

    500th Year of the Excommunication of Martin Luther (1521-2021)

    60th Anniversary of the Establishment of a Catholic Hierarchy in Indonesia

    BIRTHDAY
    Sr. Ma. Bella Mojica, AR
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    DEATH ANNIVERSARY
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    BIRTHDAY
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    Sis Mary Grace Susas, SAR (Talisay Chapter)
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    DEATH ANNIVERSARY
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    BIRTHDAY
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    Bro. Jose Pepito Gabriel Bonete, SAR (Puerto Princesa Chapter)
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    Leila Barizo (RAY-Cavite)

    DEATH ANNIVERSARY
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    +Fray Casiano Cosmilla
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    BIRTHDAY
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    DEATH ANNIVERSARY
    +Sr. Juana de la Merced, AR
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    BIRTHDAY
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    RST: START OF ENROLMENT

    BIRTHDAY
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    Sr. Leticia Cerdeño, AR

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    FEAST OF THE BLACK NAZARENE
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    BIRTHDAY
    Sr. Rosario Bianes, AR
    Sis. Marcelina Taguinod, SAR (Tondo Chapter)

    DEATH ANNIVERSARY
    |+Sr. Dominga Gargarita, AR

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    FEAST OF THE BAPTISM OF THE LORD

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    +Sr. Paulina de la Purisima Corazon de Maria, AR

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    BIRTHDAY

    Sr. Catalina Ruiz, AR
    Sis. Elena Dagdag, SAR (Baguio Chapter)
    Ian Gabrielle Canlubo (RAY-Cavite)

    DEATH ANNIVERSARY
    +Sr. Ma. Zita Lloren, AR
    +Sis. Elena Caballero, SAR (San Carlos Chapter)

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    BIRTHDAY
    Fray Reynaldo Jaranilla
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    DEATH ANNIVERSARY
    +Sis. Bro. Hilario Torcedo, SAR (Baguio Chapter)
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    ANNIVERSARY OF EPISCOPAL ORDINATION
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    Archbp. Jose Palma, D.D. (Archdiocese of Cebu)

    BIRTHDAY
    Bro. Jonathan Casiño, SAR (Provincialate Chapter)
    Bro. Antonio Sonsona, SAR (Tondo Chapter)

    DEATH ANNIVERSARY
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    BIRTHDAY
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    Bro. Jose Valdez, SAR (Provincialate Chapter)
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    DEATH ANNIVERSARY
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    BIRTHDAY
    Fray Anthony Irineo
    Sr. Ma. Marcela de la Cruz, AR
    Bro. Maximo Epanto, SAR (Cebu Chapter)

    DEATH ANNIVERSARY
    +Sr. Ma. Virgin de la Consolacion, AR

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    COMMEMORATION OF THE DEAD RELATIVES OF THE MEMBERS OF THE ORDER

    BIRTHDAY
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    DEATH ANNIVERSARY
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    +Sis. Amelia Casiño, SAR (Provincialate Chapter)

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    FEAST OF THE STO. NINO

    BIRTHDAY
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    DEATH ANNIVERSARY
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    +Sr. Cesaria Barbarona, AR

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    WEEK OF PRAYER FOR CHRISTIAN UNITY
    Inclusive dates: January 18-25, 2021
    Theme: “Abide in my love and you shall bear much fruit” (John 16:1-17)

    BIRTHDAY
    Fray Joseph Dexter Palagtiosa
    Sis. Guia Gonzales, SAR (Provincialate Chapter)

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    BIRTHDAY
    Sr. Cleofe Maria Agua, AR
    Sis. Angelica Tejada, SAR (Antipolo Chapter)
    Sis. Myrna Amante, SAR (Tondo Chapter)

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    ST. SEBASTIAN (PATRON SAINT OF MANILA & CAVITE COMMUNITIES, DIOCESE OF BACOLOD)

    SSC-R MANILA’s FOUNDATION CELEBRATIONS
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    BIRTHDAY
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    Sis. Mercedes Velada, SAR (Tondo Chapter)

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    BIRTHDAY
    Fray Urbano Galanido
    Fray Jerome Virtudazo
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    Sis. Alice Catulong, SAR (Cebu Chapter)
    Sis. Anecita Paglinawan, SAR (Laray Chapter)

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    BIRTHDAY
    Most Rev. Victor Bendico, DD (Bishop of Baguio)

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    BIRTHDAY
    Bro. Marciano Cleofas, SAR (Provincialate Chapter)
    Sis. Gloria Acosta, SAR (Manila Chapter)
    Sis. Esterlina Silva, SAR (San Carlos Chapter)
    Sis. Rosemarie Gaspar, SAR (Valencia Chapter)
    Judith Mondejar (RAY-Caidiocan)
    Kathrine Bacalso (RAY-Laray)

    DEATH ANNIVERSARY
    +Sr. Gertrudis del Pilar, AR
    +Sr. Cresencia Vailoces, AR

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    SUNDAY OF THE WORD OF GOD
    [NOTE: Pope Francis’ Apostolic Letter, Motu proprio Aperuit illis, published on 30 September 2019, establishes that “the Third Sunday in Ordinary Time is to be devoted to the celebration, study and dissemination of the Word of God”.]

    BIRTHDAY
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    Sr. Faith Niña Fuertes, AR
    Sis. Florida San Juan, SAR (Tondo Chapter)
    Sis. Raymunda Co, SAR (Laray Chapter)
    Analyn Martinez (RAY-Valencia)

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    SOLEMNITY OF THE CONVERSION OF ST. PAUL

    CSNT-Rs 50th (1971-2021) FOUNDING ANNIVERSARY Inclusive dates: January 25-30, 2021

    BIRTHDAY
    Sis. Erlinda Casaje, SAR (Manila Chapter)
    Bro. Rodelio Gasparillo, SAR (Bacolod Chapter)
    Bro. Feddie Junsay, SAR (Bacolod Chapter)
    Joelle Maria Mendoza (RAY-Miranila)

    DEATH ANNIVERSARY
    Sr. Ma. Lucia Sagmit, AR

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    BIRTHDAY
    Fray Cristopher Maspara
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    ANNIVERSARY OF EPISCOPAL ORDINATION
    (2005-2021)
    Most Rev. Reynaldo Evangelista, D.D. (Diocese of Imus)

    DEATH ANNIVERSARY
    +Sis. Margarita Zafra, SAR (Antipolo Chapter)

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    BIRTHDAY
    Sr. Marilyn Cula, AR
    Sr. Remilyn Leonido, AR
    Sis. Evelyn Balingit, SAR (Antipolo Chapter)

    DEATH ANNIVERSARY
    +Sis. Murita Jara, SAR (Tondo Chapter)

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    BIRTHDAY
    Fray Louie Gabinete

    DEATH ANNIVERSARY
    Sr. Fernanda del Pilar, AR
    Sr. Ines Garcia, AR

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    January 29, 2021

    LAUNCHING OF HEART SOLIDARITY CAMPAIGN 2021 / Province of St. Ezekiel Moreno only

    BIRTHDAY
    Sr. Francisca Rojas, AR
    Sis. Lourdes Insigne, SAR (Antipolo Chapter)
    Jona Mendoza (RAY-Miranila)

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    January 30, 2021

    BIRTHDAY
    Fray Jonathan Caballero
    Sr. Angelica Fuentes, AR
    Sr. Pascualina Peral, AR
    Sis. Violeta Siozon, SAR (Antipolo Chapter)
    Sis. Fedencia dela Criz, SAR (Brooke’s Point Chapter)
    Sis. Minerva Alcarde, SAR (San Carlos Chapter)

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    January 31, 2021

    4TH SUNDAY IN ORDINARY TIME

    68th WORLD LEPROSY DAY

    BIRTHDAY
    Sr. Josephine Ativo, AR
    Sis. Saturnina Antolihao, SAR (Tondo Chapter)
    Lance Raven Lapinig (RAY-Talisay)

      

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